—Sereno Sky, author of “Lonely Traveller” (now on amazon.com)
On a recent 60 Minutes segment, Lesley Stahl interviewed Harvard scientist Irving Kirsch, who says the drugs used to treat depression are effective, but for many, it’s not the active ingredient that’s making people feel better. It’s the placebo effect.
Obviously, this viewpoint is causing…
I have learned that to be in a relation I can’t be selfish nor giving up because of the sake of the word I can’t. Relation is a relation nothing is different is all based on the decision that we make, and the things that we want in a relation.
For a example a couple when the start a relation they are so deeply in love and so connected to each other that they miss each other every minute it passes when they are apart then they decide to be together as a family which is a big step in here, but at this point the couple made their decision based on the feelings that they have for each other and how it feels good that’s why they wanna be together as a family, but actually both they didn’t think of the sacrifice that each should do, because at that moment the made their decision based on only the two of them not thinking about how their relation would be after having kids and what they should do to keep the relation strong. And also to think of these kids who will be part of their lives. Is not after having kids that they realize shit we can’t be together or I can’t do this,
Why we can’t do this if the relation was based on love and feelings which is wonderful? Why can’t we stop being selfish and think for a moment of trying harder and give chance to make things better and for the sake of the kids to grow up in a family home? Why we should always think oh I am tired I can’t do this? Why can’t we sacrifice ? Since we made decision of having a family? Why to be apart ?
Do you think moving from one relation to other is the solution? Well it is not we just go through the same experience that we experience before at the beginning of each relation the sparkles of love and butterflies and then what after that ?
I had to share with you my thoughts